Hope For The Hurting

       Pain and suffering are unavoidable in this life. The good thing is that God uses these terrible things for our own good. He uses it as an opportunity to shape and strengthen us. If He did not, then we would be weak and unprepared for what life throws our way. People find ways to escape their suffering and circumstances all too often. Why wouldn't they try to escape their pain? It's in our nature to want to run away from anything that would cause us to become uncomfortable. I am definitely guilty of fleeing from trials and suffering. I have thought about and attempted suicide on numerous occasions in my past. Pain can easily overwhelm us if we let it. I am not capable of putting in to words of how hopeless and alone I have felt. The bible tells us to rejoice in our suffering. Most people would scoff at this statement because it goes against our nature as human beings. Yet, by obeying this command I have managed to make it through my worst days and nights. Yes, the pain can be overwhelming but when you have someone like Jesus to comfort you, you have hope. Suffering is not forever. This life is but a short prelude to eternity. You can still find hope in this life if you truly seek it.Cast all your cares and worries at the feet of God and take one day at a time. Do not worry about tomorrow. God already knows what's going to happen and He will not give you more than you can handle. Now, all this is easier said than done. It takes a lot of training, faith, and prayer. I am still learning this myself and there are things that I still need help with.
     You cannot escape suffering and heartbreak in this life but Jesus makes it bearable. He can carry you through those times of extreme hurt and sorrow. In His mercy, He also provides us with practical resources. Talk to people you trust. Never hold your pain inside you. It will eat you alive. Help other people too. This is a great coping mechanism because you will be too focused on others to worry about your pain. Some of us carry wounds unnecessarily for months. Even years. I am guilty of this as well. Pain like this can weigh heavily on a person and even paralyze their spiritual growth. It will hurt a lot but you must take the offensive and resolve whatever it is that may weigh heavily on you. It will come sooner or later. Pray about it and God will give you an answer.
      Dealing with suffering takes an immense amount of willpower but it makes us stronger when we overcome those trials. There is no hurt that Jesus doesn't understand. He is acquainted with sorrows and took all our sins upon Him as He died on the cross. However, you must make the choice if you want to be healed. You must take the initiative. God won't make us do anything against our will. It may be hard but believe me, it is worth it!